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Home » Life-style » Struggling to Sleep at Night? Are you Suffering from DSPS

Struggling to Sleep at Night? Are you Suffering from DSPS

January 19, 2015 | 16 Comments

Attention all you night owls, did you realise that constant late nights can play havoc with your body clock. It is recommended that the average adult should have 8 hours of sleep per night.

This for many is not realistic, with busy lifestyles many of us can be found still doing household jobs, checking emails and on interacting facebook into the small hours of the next morning. Like many I am often found emptying the dishwasher, loading the washing machine, writing blog posts and answering my emails at one, two, even three am. I sometimes have even stayed up so late that on occasions I have decided not to go to bed at all, with the worries that I would not wake up to get my youngest child to school on time. I have noticed so many other people especially bloggers still awake and posting on social media in the middle of the night, so I am not alone with these night time patterns. It is also extremely common condition among teenagers and young adults, especially students.

To some the behaviour may sound unusual,but there is an increasing number of people that struggle to get to sleep at a reasonable hour. Many people unaware that they could be suffering from DSPS delayed sleep phase syndrome. As an M.E sufferer I have always put my odd night time behaviour down to the bizarre symptoms that M.E gives you, but now I am rethinking this altogether.

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What is Delayed sleep Phase syndrome

Delayed sleep phase Syndrome is a disorder affecting the circadian rhythm or in simple terms our body clocks. It is an extreme version of what we use for the term night owl. Sufferers find that when there natural sleep patterns are pushed back they do not feel tired until the early hours of the morning.

DSPS should not be mistaken for someone who has insomnia as sufferers of DSPS once asleep can sleep and very well, this is something I can definitely relate to. When I eventually do drift off to sleep I am an absolute nightmare to wake up.

What causes Delayed sleep Phase syndrome

As time goes on the more late nights we have our body starts to become used to this pattern and begins to have problems getting to sleep at a normal hour, which can lead you to becoming sleep deprived and have an effect on your mental and physical health. It can also be genetic or even behaviour you have learnt from your parents growing up.

A whopping 96,000 Britons suffer from this disorder, yet this is rapidly increasing due to the increased use of technology, light emitted devices such as iPads, computers and mobiles which all confuse our body clocks making it believe it’s day time. Stressful work culture and busy lifestyles can also play a major part.

Lack of sleep can have a huge effect on your health. I caught a simple virus in November and have never felt so poorly and run down, it took me nearly a month to recover.

Long term sleep deprivation is associated with increased heart rate, blood pressure and high levels of chemicals which can put an extra strain on your heart.Missing out on deep sleep can lead to type 2 diabetes by changes in the way your body processes glucose.

It can make people gain weight as lack of sleep affects your appetite hormones and with only a few hours sleep per night we have not been able to charge our batteries, our brains have not fully charged which leads to poor judgment. he repair and renewal process that takes place through the night does not stand a chance and many who suffer with DSPS look pale with dark heavy looking eyes.

Signs you may have Delayed sleep Phase syndrome

  1. You may feel tired at the wrong times. Instead of feeling tired like most people late on an evening you will find yourself starting to get tired in the early hours of the morning.
  2. You will sleep really well once you are a sleep, finding it difficult to wake up on a morning at the right time.
  3. You will feel sleepy through the daytime rather than on an evening.
  4. You struggle with your feelings, mood swings, exhaustion and you will find it hard to concentrate.

How to avoid developing Delayed sleep Phase syndrome

Dr Neil Stanley a sleep expert advises avoiding technology and bright lights for at least an hour before bedtime. Just like we teach our children but doing it ourselves feels like an alien concept.

6 Small Steps to Combat DSPS

  1. Try going to sleep 15 minutes early each night. Taking baby steps to train your brain and yourself to eventually sleep at a normal hour.
  2. Try calming exercise like yoga or meditation to calm the body and mind.
  3. Avoid using a computer close to bedtime as this can make DSPS worse.
  4. Eating well keeps the blood sugar levels stable which helps our bodies to produce Melatonin the sleep hormone.
  5. Treat yourself to a relaxing bubble bath with a few drops of Lavender oil which can aid relaxation by helping to lower your heart rate and blood pressure.
  6. Try a cup of warm milk which contains tryptophan which helps produce the sleep hormone Melatonin.

Don’t fancy the natural approach, they are also plenty of gadgets out there to aid sleep.   

  1. MP3 Player – Yes, believe it or not music aids sleep! not rock music “Well, at least I don’t think that would help” but music that is soothing and calming can make your eyes close tight for the entire night.
  2. Lumie Bodyclock Active 250 – Experts recommend the Lumie clock produces a dimming light that may help you relax and drift off to sleep. Cost £99.95 @lumie.com
  3. The Alpha Stim Aid – A very small device and portable device that uses micro currents through an ear clip electrodes which stimulate sleep according to the manufacturers. £449 @alpha-stim.o.uk
  4. Marsona DSI-600A – This device emits a white noise and also includes other sounds like rain and crickets. This should help shut out the other noises which can stop you from getting a good nights rest! £94.99 @whitenoisemachine.co.uk

Have you ever suffered with Delayed Sleep Phase Syndrome? do you have any tips that can help others get a good nights sleep at the right times!

Please leave a comment below and let us know exactly what you think!

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Comments

  1. Christine Lockley says

    January 19, 2015 at 2:13 pm

    Wow, this is so me and in a way I’m glad to know that I am alone. This last year has been particularly hard and looking back my sleep patterns were shocking just before I had my heart attack (a bolt from the blue and none of the normal warning signs) since then I have felt permanently tired but still struggle to sleep at night, so have been making myself go to bed at a reasonable time. I have also been trying hard to stay in bed during the night instead of getting up and having a drink, watch tv, do a few jobs – it’s so hard though.

    Thank you for sharing (and sorry for waffling on – recovery seems long, slow and lonely when family at work and school)

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  2. Jacqueline Gum says

    January 20, 2015 at 1:04 am

    In my twenties I worked at a job that had me arriving home at 3 AM and getting back to work at 8 AM. I think I did suffer form DSPS then. But now I truly am an early riser…5:00AM and I am fast asleep by 9-9:30PM. All in all, I feel much better with this sleep habit

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  3. Bunmi Afuye says

    January 21, 2015 at 7:45 pm

    yes! thank you for the tips. i’ve been diagnosed and cured haha hope with this tips i can go to bed early

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  4. Louise Collier says

    January 22, 2015 at 2:09 pm

    This is really interesting, I’ve never heard of it before. I have some of the symptoms in that I feel less tired at night and more in the day and I struggle to get to sleep, but I also wake up lots once I am asleep as well. I am a terrible sleeper and find it so hard to switch off xx #brillblogposts

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  5. citygirl101 says

    January 22, 2015 at 2:16 pm

    This is so me, my sleep is just all wrong. Suffering from anxiety doesn’t help either!

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  6. Merlinda Little says

    January 22, 2015 at 6:34 pm

    I have heard of this before and I have some nights like this. So thanks for sharing some tips to fight it. I might try not to use the laptop before sleeping & not bringing my cellphone beside me. Its always the cellphone actually. I always check updates on it whether its morning or night. #BrillBlogPosts

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  7. Bex Smith says

    January 22, 2015 at 10:55 pm

    This is really interesting – this is a lot like me as I have a lot of the symptoms. Need to take some of the tips on board! #BrillBlogPosts

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  8. HonestMum says

    January 23, 2015 at 3:17 pm

    Really useful post to so many! Hard when kids wake you up too! Thanks for linking up to #brilliantblogposts, please link back and add my badge. Thanks

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  9. Zena's Suitcase says

    January 27, 2015 at 6:05 pm

    I didn’t realise that you could upset your sleep pattern so easily. I must admit if I’m on my phone or tablet before I go to bed, I really struggle to get to sleep. I will bear this in mind in future

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  10. Rachel Cooper says

    January 27, 2015 at 8:18 pm

    Some great tips and pointers here. I don’t have any problems sleeping (other than an 8 week old and his nightfeeds!) but I think the tips you’ve shared are essential for everyone!

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  11. Kate Veggie Desserts says

    February 2, 2015 at 1:06 pm

    Sounds like a dreadful thing to have. Very useful post for many, I’m sure. I need to stop bookending my day by reaching for my phone first thing in the morning and last thing at night.

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  12. HandbagMafia says

    February 5, 2015 at 12:36 am

    Must send this to my husband, I had no idea there was a name for it!

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  13. Natalie @ Our Parallel Connect says

    February 5, 2015 at 2:16 am

    My husband does shift work and it plays havoc with his sleeping patterns. I use to be a bad sleeper but the busier i am the better i sleep. I need to send this to another blogger who struggles in this area

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  14. Al - The Dad Network says

    February 5, 2015 at 10:50 am

    Really useful post. Thanks for sharing this information.

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  15. Gym Bunny Mummy says

    February 5, 2015 at 4:41 pm

    I’m not to this full extreme but can relate to an extent. If I stay up later than 11pm then I

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  16. International Elf Service says

    February 9, 2015 at 9:39 pm

    This is so true – it’s in effect a form of jet lag. I think that when you have kids, the tendency to make the most of getting things done in the evenings can mean you extend too late. I find the whole business of circadian rhythms so interesting and we all operate on slightly different day lengths too. Your natural day length might be 23.5 hours and mine might be 24.25 hrs for example. We have to train ourselves to fit in with the 24 hour clock. It’s also critical that we receive the right wavelengths of light. Older people who have cataracts / blind people, don’t get this and so it affects their sleep hugely and they often have anxiety / depression too. It’s all incredibly interesting.

    Reply

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